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What to wear to a disco party? A fun female disco outfit in this week's Fashion Post plus giveaway. > More

A few weeks back Marc and I were invited to a fun 70’s disco party. Several hours before see me asking myself what to wear. Scouting out costumes on Amazon a week or two before would have been a great idea, but sadly that idea did not occur to me on time. Into my closet, I plunged!

Female Disco Outfit

I’ve always loved bell-bottomed jeans and fortunately, I never part with jeans I like. So the first item I decided upon was this pair of Madewell wide bell-bottoms. Then, I fished out some pale “summer boots” from a few seasons before. The color had a seventies feel.

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what to wear to a disco party

Off the shoulder blouses have made a comeback. This fun JCrew top with brightly colored shimmering stars seems disco-y enough. On you go, top.

I’m not one for heavy jewelry but some bangles seemed inevitable.  Then, an oversized purple plastic wring.

Marc had headed to the costume store to pick up his own Disco shirt — check my Instagram page for the look — and he generously offered me this faux-gold shimmery disco necklace. Outfit complete!disco female outfitwhat to wear to a 70's party

Have fun with your look, mamas, and dare to look a little silly too. We all need a laugh once in a while.

That’s it for this week’s fashion post. Make sure to check back in for more next week and don’t forget to enter our Jcrew giveaway.


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Why teaching kids about civic responsibility and getting them involved in their community is important. > More

Last week, I attended a cocktail party hosted by my friend Mila. Mila has recently launched a fascinating podcast called Future Hindsight. She describes the podcast as follows: “Future Hindsight is the place where civic engagement meets civil discourse. In conversations with experts, everyday citizens, and activists, we explore the ways in which we all have the power to shape our society …”

How to Teach Your Kids About Civic Responsibility

How to Teach Your Kids About Civic Responsibility

At the party, I caught up with fellow moms and Mila spoke briefly about her new endeavor.

I came away from the event impressed. Having grown up in a family that was politically astute (both of my parents were active in Connecticut politics and I grew up in a household where we talked about our society, current events and how to change things for the better on a daily basis), I often feel that my own family lives in too much of a bubble. We are so overwhelmed by our daily lives that we don’t talk enough about the responsibility we have to make our society work better for others.

Civic Engagement Activities for Kids

Mila’s venture targets us adults — encouraging us to get involved, to participate in our world. Yet she got me thinking about the generation of kids we parents are raising. So busy are they with school, sports, and activities that they barely have time to notice how others who are differently situated experience their daily lives. How do you get your kids to look outside of their own experiences and see hardship and struggle elsewhere; and to understand as fellow human beings, we are obliged to help?

If you’ve done community service with your kids or encouraged them to help others, please share below!

I haven’t answered that big question, but I do have a happy story to share. Last weekend, I spent four hours with Lachlan making bagged lunches at a neighborhood church soup kitchen. As part of his Catholic confirmation, Lachlan is required to perform ten community service hours. At the church basement, we prepared sandwiches, ladled soup into paper containers, folded napkins, and then packed brown paper bag lunches, popping in hard-boiled eggs and brownies donated by a local woman to complete the task. Then, along with an amazing team of other adults and kids, we handed out the bagged lunches to people who showed up.

Why teaching kids about civic responsibility and getting them involved in their community is important.

As folks entered the church to collect their lunch, Lachlan said “Hello, Sir … Hello, Ma’am” to each and every one and called to them “Have a nice day!” as they left. And on the way home, he said to me: “Mom, let’s go back next week. I don’t need any more service hours for my confirmation, but it’s good to go anyway. It’s good to help the less fortunate.”

This might have been one of my proudest moments as a mom. Although Lachlan’s ten hours are complete, we plan to go back next Sunday and Hedley wants to join in.

For the rest of the day, Lachlan seemed settled and focused to me, and less likely to get involved in a spat with a sibling. Helping others — something I know my family needs to do more of — lifts us up and makes us feel connected, important. These experiences tap into our shared humanity.

Dive into the world and get involved and teach your kids to do the same. It’s a habit that will last a lifetime.

Ann Landers — 'It is not what you do for your children, but what you have taught them to do for themselves that will make them successful human beings.'

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A transparent Zara dress with celestial motif in this week's clothing giveaway. > More

Hiya fashionista mamas. Valentine’s Day this year became a special night for Marc and me. We hadn’t been out to dinner together in months so a calm meal and yummy food proved to be the perfect fix!

Describe your ideal Valentine’s Day below and enter our Weekly Giveaway!zara-transparent-dress-giveawayWhile getting ready for our dinner, I was determined to make it to the restaurant Marc had selected in our neighborhood on time. This required getting ready in a jiffy. Meanwhile, I wanted to look a little special.

I settled upon this transparent dress from Zara with a celestial motif, gold-studded booties from Designer Shoe Warehouse, and a black sparkly bag from Karen Millen.

I’ll confess: I have a terrible trait when it comes to clothes. I get tired of things really fast. Once I have worn something a few times, I need to mix and match it with something new lest I get bored. I had worn this dress before with over the knee fitted suede boots, so these booties were the new twist as was the clutch.



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Looking for ways to limit screen time? Here are some easy ways to limit screen time as a parent. > More

I don’t know a parent out there who isn’t looking for ways to limit their kid’s screen time. No matter how hard you try to leave iPads, iPhones, computers and video games at bay, kids find them. Take away their phones and they find a way to stream games on their school-provided iPad. Hide the iPad at the back of your closet and lo and behold, they find it. It’s a constant battle in any household with parents who want to put limits on their kid’s tech

We all know the dangers of excessive screen time. Research indicates that internet addiction is associated with structural and functional changes in brain regions associated with emotional processing, executive attention, decision making and cognitive control. Even children who are not addiction per se have been observed to be impulsive, moody and lacking concentration.

In short, experts basically agree that we should limit screen time as much as possible allowing our kids to talk, play, and ideally. Easier said than done, right parents?

Our household is stricter than many when it comes to tech, yet as my kids have gotten older controlling how much time they spend playing games has proved more and more challenging with each passing year. Today’s video is about what we’ve done in my household to try to place limits on screen time. Weigh in with what happens in your household.

Easy Ways to Limit Screen Time

Some simple ways we’ve used to limit screen time include: asking children to place iPhones in our bathroom when they get home from school or an activity and monitoring them during homework time by asking them to do homework in public areas and sneaking up on them and checking that they are not watching videos or playing games instead of actually doing the homework. Yup!  For more tips, watch my video!

Things to do Instead of Screen Time

As I expand upon in my video, instead of screen time, try encouraging your kids to read, board games, and even watching a good movie together. Anything is better than just sheer video games they play on their own.

Video games can be creative for kids so I’m not saying they are all wrong. I am saying, though, that if your household is anything like mine, you can do with fewer video games and more time reading, talking, and pitching in with bed-making and doing dishes.

Watch my video for more tips and thanks for watching.

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Kids coding classes have inspired my daughter. Thoughts on coding for girls and our weekly giveaway. > More

Hiya mamas. I wouldn’t say I consider our family a techie bunch. We’re more readers and history lovers. So when a friend of mine suggested that Annaliese and her daughter take kids coding classes this past month, I wasn’t quite sure what to expect. Since Annaliese was game (forgive the pun), I was too.  Third-grade girls from Annaliese’s school and another school came together for four hours each Saturday for the “coding camp” and on the final day, they presented their games to a proud group of parents.

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STEM — Science, Technology, Engineering, and Math — is a hot term right now. How awesome that our school is now prioritizing giving girls equal exposure to these areas. For centuries, they have been dominated by men.

Coding for Girls

For these third graders, coding means using an interface to design an interactive game. Annaliese devised a game with a horse that moved along a maze. Her game included milestones and a prize for the winner. In the midst of her presentation, her game stopped suddenly and the teacher pointed out that she needed to go back to her code to fix the glitch. All part of the learning.



Whenever an opportunity arises for your kids to get out of the house and learn, grab it, even if the activity in question is one they’ve never done before.

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How to wear over the knee boots plus a fun night out in this week's fashion post plus Zara giveaway. > More

Hiya fashionista mamas. I’m a big fan of over the knee boots. I have two pairs of black boots that go over the knee, both suede — one with flat heels and the other with high-heels — and I find I live in them during the winter for evenings out. They look nice, plus they keep your legs nice and warm. It isn’t always easy to figure out, though, how to wear these thigh-high boots. They don’t really work over jeans, nor thick pants, and you have to be careful in your selection of skirt or dress.

What Kind of  Dress to Wear with Thigh High Boots

Last Thursday night, my boys’ school held a Parent’s Reception in their new building. My friend Patty was one of the event organizers so I knew I wanted to be there to support her. I feel like I wear the same dresses over and over so I decided to try for something new.How to Wear Over the Knee BootsHow Do I get Thigh High Boots to Stay UpI took a simple crew-neck black sweater, a stretchy black skater’s skirt from Club Monaco, and these funky, purple velvet over the knee boots from Zara. I added a purple plastic ring and some garnet-colored drop earrings. The purple theme complete, I was ready to go.Over the Knee Boots Outfit What Kind of Dress Do I Wear with Thigh High BootsA friend asked me “how do you get those thigh-high boots to stay up?” This pair from Zara was pretty steady but I did have to pull them up a few times during the course of the evening. When they fell, though, the wrinkles looked kind of fun, too. The perfect is the enemy of the good.

Another nice way to wear these boots is to pair them with a long dress. You won’t show off the “thigh-high” part, but your legs will be warm and your calves will look spectacular.

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Worried about your baby reaching developmental milestones? My two cents in today's new video. > More

A mom wrote in asking “why isn’t my baby reaching milestones.” I ponder her concerns and give some tips in today’s new video.

Mama, your first concern is that your baby is not sitting up for long periods of time. He sits up but then lurches backward. He does not crawl. And he despises tummy time.

When to Worry about Baby Not Reaching Milestoneswhy isn't my baby reaching milestones

As I share in the video, I had many and recurrent concerns about my babies not reaching their milestones. All of my kids sat up late, crawled late, walked late and talked late. It was so stressful. I remember hanging out with my new mom friends and feeling a growing pit of dread in my stomach, so concerned was I that there was something wrong with my baby.

If this pit has landed in your stomach, check with your doctor and ask him what a normal range is for these developmental milestones. Then, ask him what you can do to encourage your baby to grow stronger.

Here are some ideas, and watch my video for more details:

tummy time. Try lying on the floor yourself on your back and putting your baby in tummy time on your own stomach.

-if your baby likes being on his tummy, try encouraging your baby to reach for things to encourage crawling

-try gently pushing your baby off on his own with your hands.

-make sure you create a safe environment in which your baby can explore freely.

For more tips, watch my video. Stay calm, get all the information you need, and remember: the most important thing is to love and support your baby, the rest will fall into place.



Motherhood is hard, so here are 10 cool ways to help out a new mom in your life! > More

Hello everyone! Today’s topic is one that is near and dear to my heart – helping a new mom. After having each of my five children, I was so grateful for all of my wonderful friends and family who offered to help me out. Taking care of a newborn is hard and helping hands are always welcome. So here’s a list of ways I found were helpful for me as a new mother that could inspire you!

How to Help a New Mother10 Ways to Help a New Mom

  1. Offer to run errands: With a very young baby in the house, it can be hard for a new  mom to make it out the door for even the simplest of errands. I thought it was so nice when my friends would call or text saying they were at the store and were wondering if I needed anything. Even having a friend pick up simple milk or eggs for you can be a huge help!
  2. Provide reading materials: Breastfeeding a new baby is a tough job. Hours and hours are spent sitting down to nurse or pump. Give the new mom in your life the gift of a good distraction by providing fun books or magazines to read while she’s nursing. And if you don’t want to choose for her, get her a gift card so she can buy her own!
  3. Stock up on snacks: If you’re wondering what to bring a new mom, food is always a good option. I remember my friends would bring over healthy granola bars, dried fruits, and even fun foods like frozen pizza or cookies to help keep me energized and feeling satisfied. It is so hard to find the time to whip up fancy snacks or meals as a new mom, so these ready to eat foods were the perfect gift!
  4. Offer to help around the house: I was so appreciative of friends and family who took the time out of their day to help with little things around the house. When my husband had to work, it could get pretty lonely in the house without adult contact. It was nice to have someone to talk to (and who could talk back!) while I ran errands around the house like folding laundry or whipping up dinner.
  5. Help her get outside: It can be quite monotonous stuck inside all day with a screaming baby. Help relieve some of her cabin fever by offering to help get her and her family out and about. This can be as easy as just offering to dress her other children (if she has them) and pack some on the go snacks. Everyone needs an extra hand once in awhile with a stroller, offer to take it off her hands for a bit when going for a walk or even running errands.
  6. Babysit her (other) kids: Take some of the stress off her hands by offering to take care of her other children for a day. Everyone will be happier. The new mom in your life can focus on meeting her new infant’s needs and the other, older kids will have free time to laugh and play at their leisure in a different house, rather than having to patiently wait out another diaper changing session or nursing stint. I remember when my fifth child, Marielle, was born, it was always a blessing when someone offered to take the four older ones out of the house. Made for some good quality one-on-one time with my little angel, too.
  7. Be available: Whether you’re next door or across town, reassure your friend that she can count on you for anything that comes your way. It was so reassuring knowing that my friends and family were just a phone call away and could get to my place even in the wee hours of the morning if an emergency presented itself.
  8. Rock-a-bye Baby: As much as you love your little one, sometimes it feels so good to get your baby off your hands (literally) for even a little bit. I had wonderful friends who would come over and offer to rock the baby for a bit while I took a (much-needed) hot shower or took a (much-needed) nap. You’ll feel rejuvenated and excited when you see your new baby again!
  9. Keep Clean: Offer to help clean around the house while she handles the newborn. Or, pay for a one-time cleaning by a reputable home cleaning service. She will be eternally grateful! Also, speaking of cleaning, don’t forget to thoroughly wash your hands or use hand sanitizer before holding the baby.
  10. Ask: When in doubt of what the new mother needs, ask her. Maybe she’s craving a certain food from the store or just needs someone to listen to while she vents. No act of kindness is too small when it comes to helping out a new mom and you will be so appreciated!

Motherhood - Will it be easy? No. Will it be worth it? Absolutely.Do you have any rules for visiting a new mom that you would like to share? Comment below with yours!

Looking for a list on pregnancy food no-no's? Here are 10 foods to avoid during pregnancy! > More

Hello, hello!
If you’re like me during my five pregnancies, you were fighting off cravings left and right! While they are tempting, there are definitely foods to avoid during pregnancy, and here’s an easy list of pregnancy food no-no’s to keep in mind when you’re expecting.

What Not to Eat when You’re Pregnant10 Foods to Avoid when You're Pregnant

  1. Caffeine: Sorry to all those coffee and tea-lovers out there, you’ll have to kick the habit when you’re expecting. Caffeine can actually work as a diuretic and lead to lower birth weight. Because it can be found in teas, coffees, and even chocolate, it’s best to read the labels before consuming anything that might contain caffeine!
  2. Unwashed Produce: Unless properly washed and peeled, eating produce can lead to ingesting harmful pesticides, which can cause considerable damage to your fetus! Beware and be hyper-vigilant when it comes to washing before eating.
  3. Unpasteurized Dairy Products: These dairy products may contain listeria, so before picking up milk or cheese at the store, check that it’s been properly pasteurized.
  4. Seafood high in Mercury: Eating fish high in mercury, like shark or swordfish, can put your baby at risk for developmental delays and brain damage. Check out this site for more info on which fish and seafood to avoid.
  5. Raw/Undercooked Eggs: Mmmm I love runny eggs. So it was hard to give them up during my five pregnancies. However, eating raw or under-cooked eggs, or even foods that contain raw eggs like mousse, cakes, and mayo, can lead to salmonella poisoning, resulting in diarrhea and vomiting.
  6. Leftovers: Sorry mamas, these foods can yield bacteria growth, even if properly stored in a fridge. The best thing for you and your baby is to eat fresh and well-cooked foods using clean utensils.
  7. Raw Vegetable Sprouts: Sure, they’re packed with vitamins and minerals, but raw sprouts can be hiding harmful viruses and bacteria. Wash and cook them properly before consumption.
  8. Processed junk food: Eating junk food is not recommended, whether we’re pregnant or not. But if you’re expecting, they should really be avoided as they can
  9. Undercooked/raw meat: Avoid uncooked seafood and rare or undercooked beef as they can put you at risk of contamination by bacteria and salmonella. Check my site here for info on safe meats and proteins to eat during pregnancy.
  10. Alcohol: Sure, this one seems like a no-brainer. Drinking alcohol during pregnancy can lead to more likely premature birth, birth defects, and fetal alcohol syndrome. You might think that one glass of wine is ok, but according to the Surgeon General, there is “no known safe amount of alcohol to drink while pregnant.” It’s just not worth the risk, mamas.

Not every day of pregnancy is easy, but every day brings me closer to you!I hope this list serves as a healthy reminder to avoid these foods as much as possible. For more pregnancy do’s and don’ts, make sure you talk to your doctor before starting your pregnancy diet! What were your favorite foods that you had to give up during pregnancy? Comment below!

Happy and healthy pregnancies, mamas!

Traveling with kids soon? Check out my top 10 family travel tips that will hopefully make it easier! > More

Hello, hello!

Today’s topic is one that most parents probably dread – traveling with kids. As much as I love them, it is certainly overwhelming traveling internationally to places like Spain and France with my 5 kids on a plane and sometimes with no hubby to help. But somehow we all survived and here’s the travel vlog to prove it! Whether you’re planning for international travel with kids or a family road trip, read below for some tried and true tips for easier family travel.
10 tips on plane travel with children

My Top 10 Family Travel Tips

  1. Be Prepared : Double (and triple) check your flight status and gate number, pack your bags and passports to TSA regulations well in advance, and know beforehand who is responsible for carrying what through the airport. With five kids, it was nice that I wasn’t stuck dragging all of the suitcases…my two oldest boys were happy to help!
  2. E-Boarding Passes : This one was a life-saver! We saved so much time by not having to check in and print out our boarding passes there. And the lines to check in our bags were miraculously short. Definitely worth printing the boarding passes at home!
  3. Remind them about security rules : Before snaking through security lines with the kiddies, remind them of the rules about taking their shoes off, putting their belongings on the moving conveyor belt, and of course, not making “bomb” jokes under any circumstance.
  4. Liquids and carry-ons : Make sure you’re familiar with the TSA 3-1-1 guidelines and the carry-on regulations for your airline, but don’t be afraid to carry on as much formula and breast milk as you need for your little one! Also, bring extra snacks for your other children as some flights, even longer ones, don’t offer food service on board.
  5. Ignore your fellow passengers : This one was a toughy for me. As soon as we boarded the plane, the folks near us immediately started grumbling about my five kids and talking about needing earplugs. It can be so disheartening to find yourself in a situation where the people around you are so unwelcoming! But, I got my sweet revenge because my five kiddies were absolutely a delight – thank goodness! It’s best in these situations to focus on yourself and your family’s needs, not on the grumpy passengers around you!
  6. Safety First : Airports can be daunting for little ones. Make sure your kids stay with you at all times and, if they are older, like my boys were, have them carry their passport in a secure pack around their neck. I wanted them to practice that for later trips. Give your kids instructions for what to do if you do happen to lose sight of each other (God forbid!) and make sure they know your phone number in case they get lost.
  7. Set ground rules : Before taking off, it was good to remind my children of some basic rules when it comes to flying. First, there was no kicking the seat in front of you, keeping your voices relatively quiet, and helping out a sibling if they needed anything. With five kids in two rows of seats, it was hard to keep an eye on everyone at once, but I felt better knowing they knew what I expected from them.
  8. Screen time : Usually I am a big stickler about limiting TV time at home, but when it comes to flying, those rules went out the window! It was nice for my kids to be able to plug in their headphones and watch their favorite movies on the plane. It definitely kept them quiet and distracted for a while!
  9. Bring activities : Once your kids are settled in for the long flight or car ride, bring out the books! My boys love to read, and my girls loved having sticker books to play with. Again, a great activity that will keep them relatively quiet and distracted.
  10. Sleep : This one was tough. Even though we had our own pillows and blankets, finding a comfortable position to get to sleep was hard. I got very little sleep on the way to Spain and it was a mixed bag for my kids. I decided to forego an afternoon nap (*gasp*) and put them to bed early that night. It seemed to do them some good. We all got a decent amount of sleep and were ready for the next day!

Any more tips on traveling with kids on a plane or by car? Let me know in the comments below! Also, I would love to hear any memorable stories from your trips with your kiddies!

CloudMom says "thanks mom" in our annual giveaway. Click through for cute gift ideas and to enter. > More

Well, Mother’s Day came and went this past Sunday, but so frantic was I with two family confirmations and my high school reunion that I did not manage to get our annual Mother’s Day giveaway out in time. But rest assured, I would never give up on you special people when it comes to Mother’s Day! SO, we might be a few days late, but not to worry. This year, in tribute to our mamas, as a way to say “thanks mom” for all each of you do everyday – and to welcome in Spring — we’re launching an amazing giveaway here on CloudMom!

First up, from our lovely sponsor Tara Wilson Designs — who, as a mom of two boys, knows intuitively what moms like – a large silver box and medium box ($360 value!). Both make wonderful display boxes for photos and special items. Tara Wilson Design’s sleek yet classic items match with any decor, and allow you to bring your children’s faces into your everyday surroundings. If you’re ever on the lookout for cute gift ideas, check out her other trays, frames, and boxes here.

tara wilson designs boxes

Next, to keep mama feeling good and looking fit, a $100 gift certificate from our loyal sponsor Onzie Yogawear. Onzie’s vibrant yet comfortable leggings and tops will take you from the yoga studio into your day with aplomb. You’ll feel modern, fresh and fearless in these colorful patterns. Plus the soft fabric of Onzie’s looks ensures ease and comfort.

onzie yogawear

Next up, from another loyal sponsor Helen Ficalora, a sterling silver charm necklace (ARV $115) that just says MOM. What more is there to say in tribute to you?

sterling silver MOM charm necklace by Helen Ficalora

Lastly, a $50 Amazon gift card so mom can treat herself to whatever she wants.

$50 Amazon gift card

You deserve any piece of goodness coming your way, mama, so enter below! I’m crossing my fingers for each of you hoping that you win.

Here's to strong women. May we know them. May we be them. May we raise them.

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$600+ prize package that includes:

  • $360 Tara Wilson Designs Silver Box Set
  • $115 Helen Ficalora Sterling Silver “MOM” Necklace
  • $100 Onzie Yoga Apparel Gift Card
  • $50 Amazon Gift Card


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Discussing cow's milk sensitivity and the benefits of goat's milk plus enter our giveaway with Kabrita! > More

This post is brought to you by Kabrita goat milk food products.

Recently many moms and dads have written in asking me “is goat milk good for babies?” Well, the answer is a hearty YES and today I’m thrilled to introduce a terrific product to you all, Kabrita goat milk food products. Kabrita makes goat milk formula for babies aged 12-24 months and goat milk yogurt and fruit for babies in handy, portable pouches which babies can enjoy as of 6 months of age. I talk about the advantages of goat’s milk formula in today’s new video.

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Have a little one who’s suffering from constipation, asthma, ear infections, bloating, gas or eczema? Enter our giveaway below to win a generous basket of Kabrita products.

Goat Milk vs Cow Milk

Goat milk protein forms a smaller, softer, and looser curd in the gut than cow milk. And, it is degraded faster than cow milk protein. For some children, cow milk protein may be difficult to digest and may cause mild to moderate symptoms such as colic, constipation, diarrhea, gas, bloating, chronic congestion, recurrent ear infections, and eczema.Allow me to sing you the song of my people.Naturally easy to digest, and delicious to boot, KABRITA goat milk foods are naturally easy to digest and may be a solution for the symptoms that may be associated with cow milk sensitivity. KABRITA goat milk is produced in The Netherlands, one of the leading producers of goat milk globally, and locally at America’s first Non-GMO Project Verified goat milk dairy farm.goat milk vs cow milkKabrita goat milk formula also is fortified with 22 vitamins and minerals, providing babies aged 12-24 months with exactly the nutrition they require at this age. Ordinary goat milk, rice milk, or soy milk are not appropriate for babies this age because they do not contain these nutrients.
is goat milk good for babies - KabritaSO, with all that data in front of your mommy or daddy eyes, why not give goat milk formula and goat milk yogurt a try? You’ll be happy you did.Happiness is knowing your baby is no longer experiencing tummy issues.Oh, and don’t forget to enter our giveaway to win a generous basket of goodies from our lovely sponsor Kabrita.

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  1. A case (12) of KABRITA Goat Milk Formula. Powder.  (ARV $239.99)
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A Club Monaco sweater dress provided coziness on a snow day and a needed break from family tensions. > More

We’re celebrating the reliably-hip brand Club Monaco this week and honoring the versatile sweater dress, a great option for moms that work at and away from home.

This week’s post includes a simple variation from last week’s dress outfit, consisting of a black Club Monaco sweater dress with knee high boots. For this week, I matched a blue turtleneck sweater dress with a white belt to give the dress some definition and the outfit some color monaco navy dressThrowing my hair up in a casual twist made for another small change. Mamas, always look for small ways to change and adapt your look. Although these changes are tiny, they help keep life different and fun. Even changing your earrings or your perfume can do the trick. It’s all in how you feel!club monaco sweater dressclub monaco navy sweater dressMy comfy Stuart Weitzman black over-the-knee suede boots completed the look. If you’re wondering how to style knee high boots, try tight-fitting leggings with a long loose blouse, shirt skirts or dresses like this monacoTurning away from the fashion for just a bit, a blizzard hit New York today and the kids are home. Snow days can be L-O-N-G. I remember my mother packaging us up and tossing us outside for most of our snow days, asking us to move logs of wood from our barn to outside the door. Another “trick” she employed was claiming to bake a cheesecake which, she claimed, would crack should we kids open the door to re-enter. Smart, right? Well, since we live in an apartment, we can’t simply throw the kids outside. Snow days run long, and tempers can run thin.

One parenting expert I know recommends sitting down and drinking 10 glasses of water when you’re about to lose your temper. Getting to the 10th glass is unlikely, but by the third, you’re likely calmer and more adroit at handling the situation that confronts you.

Add to this tidbit of parenting advice the technique I tried right before writing this post. With one of my children in a full-on fit, I went into my bathroom, breathed deeply, and gave myself 10 minutes to get dressed, put on makeup, and do my hair. I emerged a new mama, refreshed and ready to resolve the strife.

Keep your cool. Take time to yourself. Splurge once in awhile. Life with kids is forever complicated — strive to be happy.

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Tips on preparing for a second baby, how to avoid sibling jealousy and more in this video. > More

Thirty-four week pregnant Priscilla wrote in with concerns over the upcoming arrival of her second baby. Priscilla’s older child being five and having been royalty in the home for the entirely to her five-year-long life, Priscilla asked me: “how will I love this child as much?”, “how will I balance caring for two children so different in age?”, and “will my older child suffer?” I answer her questions and talk generally about having a second baby and making it work for the first child in today’s video.
Will I Love Baby #2 As Much?Priscilla, I love your questions, and I’m honored to attempt to answer them. Although my first two came a mere 13 months apart, I did struggle with and worry about my time with each child and I do have some tips.

First, some observations on why this situation is such a big deal for parents and kids. Let’s face it, your older child’s world has been rocked to the core. My husband tells a funny analogy. It’s like being married and then one day your husband comes home and says “honey, I have another new wife, but I love you just as much.” In all seriousness, when you think about it, that is how the arrival of a new baby can feel to an older child. When my second, Lachlan, arrived his older brother Hedley didn’t crack a smile for a few weeks. At only 13 months, he sensed that the entire household had changed and that a competitor for his parents attention was on the scene.

Helping Older Siblings Cope with the New Baby

That being said, I have two main tips for dealing with the emotions of older children when a new baby arrives in the house. First, once the new baby comes, carve out special dedicated time with your older child. Bring them to school, to the park, to an activity, and carve out reading time for them. Look at this time as an investment in your relationship. The more secure your older child feels, the more happy and pleasant he will be, the fewer tantrums you’ll have to field, and the more easily joyful times you’ll have down the line. Spending dedicated time with your older child reassures them and reduces sibling jealousy.
Siblings: Your only enemy that you can't live without.Number two, involve your older child in taking care of the younger baby by making him or her your first lieutenant. Ask them to do small tasks like bring you diapers and wipes. Allow them to do gentle pats. When you do the bath, depending on your older child’s age, encourage him to wash the feet. Make your older child feel as if your younger child is allowing for more rather than less time with their parents, rather than taking their parents away. Making your older child an active participant in the care of your younger child encourages responsibility and reduces sibling rivalry, since the older child steps into the role of a caregiver and out of that of a rival.

In terms of loving your baby, our love is infinite and only deepens with time. We have enough room in our hearts for as many babies as the world bestows upon us. Just make sure you take care of yourself while you’re busy giving out all that love.

For more tips, watch today’s video. Oh, and here’s a video I filmed when Marielle was a little baby on what worked for me then.

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Your kids will love these healthy after-school snack ideas! > More

Hello, hello!

As a busy mom of five, it seems like my kids are always running from school to one activity or another. They barely have enough time to eat dinner before going to bed! But eating healthy is important for my growing boys. So I’ve been thinking about healthy after-school snacks for on-the-go that my kids could take with them to their activities. For my list of snacks to fuel your tween, read on!
10 Healthy Snacks for Tweens

10 Easy Snacks for your Healthy Family

  1. Layered Hummus Dip : Serve this hummus alongside pita bread, tomatoes, and carrots, and you have a perfectly balanced after-school treat.
  2. Turkey Pinwheels : Opt for these adorable mini sandwiches when your kids get home. The protein in the cheese and turkey will keep them going until dinner is served!
  3. Ants on a Log : This classic never goes out of style. Even though my boys are older, they still love the celery, peanut butter, and raisin combo!
  4. Banana pops : Opt for bananas or almost any fruit. Blend their favorite fruits in a blender, fill a few ice pop molds, and wait overnight. A cold pick-me-up for after school that you can feel good about!
  5. Granola, Yogurt, and Berry Parfaits : Sounds fancy, but it’s actually super easy to make! My kids love them, and I know yours will, too!
  6. PB&J Bites : Your kids will love this new twist on an old classic! And you’ll feel better knowing that the peanut butter, quinoa, and oats will keep them energized until dinner.
  7. Organic Oatmeal Chocolate Chip Cookies : This is one of my family’s favorite recipes. They are delicious and I don’t feel as guilty about them because they’re organic and filled with healthy oats!
  8. Leftovers : Never underestimate the power of leftovers. Especially if you kept extras from a healthy dinner or lunch the other day, a small serving would make a great after-school snack!
  9. Peanut Butter Dip : Easy to make and easy to eat! Served with apple slices, celery sticks, or pretzels, your kids will love mixing and matching at snack time.
  10. Homemade trail mix : These are perfect for little baggies to take anywhere! Customize them to your kids’ tastes, but as a suggestion, combine 1 cup whole-grain toasted oat cereal with 1/4 cup chopped walnuts and 1/4 cup dried cranberries for a healthy alternative.

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Hope you’ve enjoyed these healthy snack ideas! Comment below with your own!

Is it safe to reheat breast milk? I discuss some of the best practices for reusing breast milk. > More

Hello everyone. J.E. Edwards wrote into the site with a question that stumped me: can breast milk that has been heated up in a bottle and given to a baby (that the baby has not consumed) be restored in the fridge, reheated and given again at the next feeding? I tackle this issue of reheating breast milk in today’s new video.Tips on Reusing Breast MilkThe general rule with breast milk, as I explain the video, is to freeze it when fresh. I advise freezing and defrosting breast milk in small amounts, especially when babies are young and drinking less. Yet despite your best efforts to estimate what your baby will be eating, it is likely that at the end of certain feedings, your baby will be nice and full and yet milk remains in your bottle. Throwing away this liquid gold is painful given how much work went into pumping, storing and defrosting it. So what can you do?

Reusing Breast Milk

As I explain in today’s video, experts fear that bacteria from the baby’s mouth enters the bottle during the feeding process and infects the breast milk, making it un-sterile. Also, the breast milk in question has been out of the refrigerator or freezer for some period of time. For these reasons, when asked, experts say don’t reuse this milk. I have to say, though, that as a practical matter I did reuse breast milk and my babies never seemed to have a problem. I go into more detail in today’s video. Take a look and let me know what you think and what you did.

Oh, and for more on the best practices for storing breast milk, check out this video with breast milk storage guidelines. Please weigh in with your thoughts, and thanks so much for watching CloudMom.


Introducing a revolutionary prenatal education program and a terrific giveaway. > More

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Hello mamas and papas. There is nothing we parents care about more than raising a healthy, happy child who reaches his or her potential. Traditionally, it was thought that intellectual and physical stimulation for babies began at birth when we parents can begin speaking, reading, singing and even playing music to our babies. Yet recent research indicates that since babies in fact begin to develop their tiny little brains in the womb, we parents can provide helpful prenatal education during pregnancy.
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Enter our giveaway below to win one of TWO BabyPlus prenatal audio systems!

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All you have to do is fasten the BabyPlus pouch around mom’s pregnant belly. Choose the correct lesson, press go and continue with your busy day. As you do dishes and laundry, make conference calls, cook and hurry about your life, BabyPlus is talking to your baby in just the way he or she needs. And you, mama, have the comfort of knowing that you are doing all you possibly can to nurture your growing baby from the get-go.
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To learn more about this special and unique form of prenatal care, watch my video. Remember, nothing matters more than doing the best you can for your baby.
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Check out these ten foods and ideas for healthy eating during pregnancy! > More

Hello mamas, especially soon-to-be-new mamas! What an exciting time! Today I want to talk to you about the pregnancy diet. What kinds of healthy and yummy foods should you be eating to nourish both yourself and your growing little baby? You’ll also be looking for nutritious food that can help boost your immune system and stave off that pregnancy fatigue. Think of this as a starting food guide for pregnant women, from one mother to another!10 Things to Eat When You're Pregnant

10 Foods for Pregnancy

  1. Figs – These are jam-packed with goodness. Eating these, you’ll be sure to get the calcium, iron, potassium, zinc, and more for yourself and your growing little one! The Vitamin B6 also is thought to alleviate morning sickness – and that’s good news for everyone!
  2. Carrots and Peppers – A perfect crunchy snack to grab on the go! These foods are loaded with beta-carotene, which can help in your baby’s development of skin, organ, and bones. The fiber also helps keep things running smoothly, if you know what I mean. Pack these in little baggies for an anytime snack.
  3. Mangoes – I LOVE mangoes and I craved them during my five pregnancies. Their vitamin C can regulate your digestive tract and alleviate constipation. If you’re expecting a late summer baby, these will definitely be in stock and ready to gobble up!
  4. Oats – If you’re struggling with constipation, opt for oats for breakfast during pregnancy. They can be eaten cold or baked into almost anything – cookies, cakes, pancakes, muffins, you name it. They are full of fiber, Vitamin B, and will help your baby grow!
  5. Grapefruit – Despite being acidic, these power fruits are actually great for pregnancy. They can help  alleviate nausea by neutralizing your stomach acids, and they aid in lowering blood pressure and cholesterol. A total super fruit and so delicious!
  6.  Lean Meats – These protein-packed foods will keep you full for longer and the amino acids are vital for building your baby’s cells.
  7. Calcium – Make sure you’re getting your daily intake of calcium! It is one of the most important things to eat during pregnancy, as it will help in breast milk production and prevent osteoporosis. 4 calcium-rich foods are recommended as well as a prenatal vitamin to reach a daily dose of 1000 mg.
  8. Kiwis – These little fruits are small but important. Packed with vitamins and minerals like Vitamin C, E, A, Potassium, and Magnesium, they are overall a great addition to your pregnancy diet.
  9. Guava – Did you crave guava when you were pregnant like I did? No wonder, since they’re amazing for you. They can actually regulate your immune system and help your digestive system. For your little one, they help with the strengthening of their central nervous system. Great news!
  10. Lentils – These are a perfect go-to meal for anytime. Bursting with Vitamin B6 and Iron, these are easy on your intestines and vital for your baby’s brain and nervous system formation!

Also, let’s not forget water!! This isn’t technically a food, but make sure you’re drinking a lot when you’re expecting. Water has so many benefits, like helping in flushing out toxins, building new cells, and circulating nutrients to you and your growing baby.Growing a baby makes me feel like a superhero.I hope these great food suggestions can help you and your pregnancy menu, for breakfast, lunch, or dinner! Best of luck and I am wishing you a very happy and healthy pregnancy!


Here are 10 useful ways you can help curb your own iPhone addiction! > More

Hello, moms and dads! One of my New Year’s resolutions is to cut back on my addiction to my iPhone, especially during the evening. If, like me, you find yourself spending too much time staring at that small rectangular box, then listen up! Here are 10 tips on breaking your iPhone addiction.
10 Ways to Curb an iPhone Addiction

Quitting Your Smartphone Addiction

  1. Texting and Driving: We all know it’s dangerous, and there are countless rules about cell phone use while driving. To keep from getting tempted to check your phone while driving, keep your phone in hard-to-reach spots, like behind the driver’s seat in a purse. Nothing on your phone can be as important as your own safety while on the road.
  2. Delete useless apps: Do you find yourself mindlessly scrolling through your phone applications whenever you’re bored? Delete any apps that might be cluttering your phone and your life, including games. This also helps improve useful storage and battery life on your phone!
  3. Delete social media from your phone: I know, sounds drastic right? However, you’ll still be able to access these from your phone’s internet browser and having to physically type in the URL will keep you from mindlessly scrolling through your friend’s Facebook pictures for hours.
    10 Ways to Curb an iPhone Addiction
  4. Take a deep breath: Before you reach for your phone out of habit or boredom, take a deep breath and close your eyes. Think to yourself…do I really need to look at my phone right now? Is it pressing? Is it taking me away from my family/other responsibilities? If you answer these truthfully, chances are you’ll realize that your phone is not the most important thing right now and you’ll move on to another activity.
  5. Don’t use your phone as an alarm clock: Getting yourself a good ol’ fashioned alarm clock will prevent the daily morning check of all of your messages and notifications. How many times am I guilty of checking these before my feet even hit the rug? Too many to count. But using a clock has already decreased my morning time by a good chunk!
  6. Wait until work: Why stress yourself out more by checking your work email even before stepping your feet into the office? Staying off your phone also gives you more time for those precious moments with the family before the kids run off to school.
  7. Set boundaries: Instead of giving yourself the impossible task of sticking to the rule, “Use your phone less”, give yourself specific instructions to follow. For instance, tell yourself that you won’t use your phone in the bathroom or at the dinner table. Baby steps!
  8. Track your usage: There are several apps that you can buy for your phone whose job is in managing phone usage. These apps like Moments, Checky, or RescueTime for Android work behind the scenes to track how much time you’re using your phone from day to day. Just another reminder before constantly checking in!
  9. Wear a watch: This one may seem silly, but using a watch instead of checking the time on your phone will prevent distractions from notifications each time you look at it. Sometimes it’s better to go old fashioned! Also, they can be very stylish and an awesome accessory for any outfit.
  10. Keep your bedroom tech-free: My last tip for mindful mobile use is to charge your phone outside of your bedroom at night (again going along with the old-fashioned alarm clock tip). Keep it turned off and charging in another room so you won’t be tempted to check into the wee hours of the morning. This leaves your bedroom free for other, more important things, like sleep.

I hope you’ve enjoyed these tips on breaking your smartphone addiction! Also check out one of my posts here on what to do if you’ve lost a phone. Any more tips? Share below!

Happy New Year all!


A post-baby leaking story plus info on Dri-Fit™ incontinence products and feminine hygiene products! > More

Sponsored by Dri-Fit™ incontinence products and feminine hygiene products.

Hi everyone. Melissa here, and welcome back to CloudMom. One of the things I’ve tried to do on CloudMom since we launched is to level with you guys about the ups and downs of pregnancy, babydom, and parenting in general. I’ve spoken about leaky breasts, trouble with sex after baby, the highs and lows of breastfeeding and milk supply, and even about my difficulty with disciplining my kids. I’ve even opened up about how annoyed I get when my husband naps! Yet it isn’t until now that I’ve opened up about another post-baby reality that has hit me hard: loss of bladder control.
Got a messy and embarrassing story to tell regarding a weak bladder post- pregnancy and birthing experience? Share your story in the comments using #DriFitDiaries and learn more about Dri-Fit™ pads here!Handling Post-Baby Leaking #DriFitDiariesOne of the things that happened to me post-baby that I’ve never spoken about before, and which I still live with everyday, is loss of bladder control. And whereas before I used feminine pads only for those final days of my period, now they are a daily way of life. Yet most pads only last a short while and are not comfortable to wear for longer stretches. With my later babies, as I packed their diaper bags to head out for the day, I also packed my own feminine hygiene products because those I used would tend to get soggy, sweaty or just uncomfortable quite quickly and I would need to change them throughout the day.Handling Post-Baby Leaking #DriFitDiariesToday I’m thrilled to announce a partnership with Dri-Fit™ incontinence products and feminine hygiene products to highlight the stories of real women through the #DriFitDiaries series. Due to a special technology that marries cotton and synthetics, Dri-Fit™ offers absorbent, comfortable feminine hygiene products that do the job while being light-weight enough to let you live your active mommy life. I speak about how much I’ve relied on them in the video above. I can even fit their pads into one of my mommy thongs and tight date night dresses and not look back. Love that!
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